I’ve had the pleasure of watching clients completely dissolve under my hands. They arrive wound tight and nervous, and within minutes they’re DROWNING in sensation, breath ragged, body trembling. It’s beautiful – I love to see a person soften. It’s raw, human, and electric, and I get off on too.

That’s what happens when touch is intentional. When someone hasn’t been touched properly in months, years, maybe ever. Their body doesn’t know what to do with it at first. Then it remembers, and then it begs for more.

Touch therapy can stay therapeutic, but it can also become sexual. And when it does? The sex is different. It’s better, because your body is already open, already trusting, already alive.

What Actually Happens

You come in tense. Guarded. Maybe you’ve been in relationships where touch only happens during sex. Maybe you’re single and haven’t been touched in so long you’ve forgotten what it feels like. Maybe you’re just tired of sex that skips straight to the mechanics, without ever really arriving.

I start slow. My hands on your hands, your shoulders, and running up and down your back. Oil combined with pressure, and heat. I have no agenda, just rushed touch, open ears, and ovservant eyes.

Your breathing changes first. Then your muscles release. Your mind stops running its usual script. You’re not thinking about work, or performance, or what comes next. You are present with me.

And then – if your body asks for it – my touch shifts,vLess therapeutic, more erotic. My hands wander. Linger. Tease. You start responding differently. Reaching back. Pressing into me instead of just receiving.

That’s when we cross over. And by the time we do, you’re so open, so ready, that the intimacy after feels different than anything you’ve had before. Connected, full, and liberating, like your whole body is involved, not just the obvious parts.

Touch Starvation Ruins Sex

Most people do not realise that if you’re touch starved, sex doesn’t automatically fix it. It can’t. Because sex without touch – real, intentional, non-transactional touch – is just friction. You can fuck regularly and still be starving. You can have a partner and still feel untouched, because the kind of contact that actually feeds you is rare. It requires raw, unapologetic presence.

Touch starvation can show up in bed as: rushing to climax because slowness feels too vulnerable, going numb mid-sex even though everything’s “working,” finishing but feeling hollow, needing kink or intensity to feel anything at all, avoiding intimacy entirely because it just reminds you what’s missing.

Sound familiar? Your body is trying to tell you something.

Why I Love This Work

I’m touchy by nature. I hold hands during dinner. I rest my head on your chest while we talk. I kiss shoulders. I trace your skin absentmindedly while we lie together after. Touch is already part of everything I offer – social dates, kink sessions, private time.

But when we make touch the point? When I weave it through our entire encounter with intention and abundance? That’s when I see people transform. We both do.

And yes, like I said before, I get off on it. Watching someone unravel. Feeling the exact moment their guard drops. Hearing their breath catch when my touch changes from soothing to something else. That’s my pleasure too.

I offer this at my incall in London, and I’m happy to bring it to you at an outcall too. Sometimes it stays therapeutic. Sometimes it turns sexual. Both are soo incredible. You decide what you need, and I’lI follow your body’s lead.

Take Your Starvation Seriously

You’ve been white-knuckling through life, relationships, sex – maybe all three. Pretending you don’t need what you need. Settling for touch never seems to satisfy you, and wondering why nothing feels as good as you thought it would.

Bring that starvation to me. Let me meet it. Let me drown you in the kind of touch you didn’t know you were allowed to ask for.

One night might remind you what your body is capable of. Regular meets might rebuild how you experience intimacy entirely. Either way, you won’t forget it.

If this is something you need to explore, contact me now. Your body’s already screaming for this. Time to listen.

– S x